why is it that almost every time i join a discord server, it's either
- dead as hell with little to no activity
- the people in it are these snowflakes (who are usually queer activists) who take everything i say that deviates even SLIGHTLY from what they're used to hearing from their little circlejerk hugboxes as a threat along the lines of something as bad as school shooting or bomb threats
- egotistical power-hungry moderators with their head way up their ass who ruin the server experience and will ban/ridicule you for doing something as simple as asking a damn question
for once i'd like to be in a good server
and yeah i would make my own but i only have like.. one friend (two if you count my brother), and i don't want to advertise it constantly cause that'll get really annoying